If you treat things that are naturally outside your control as if they were yours, you’ll end up feeling trapped and miserable, blaming both others and fate. If you only focus on what’s truly within your control you won’t find yourself blaming anyone, acting against your will, or feeling wronged. 

Is this what you’re seeing out there?

The housing market map shows where sellers—or buyers—have the most power right now

+70 = strong sellers market (Red)

55 to 69 = sellers market

44 to 55 = neutral market

28 to 44 = buyers market

27> = strong buyers market (Blue)

Chart via @ResidentialClub